What’s Up Gorls

Here goes nothin! I’ve been wanting to give myself a creative outlet to share and connect on my chaotic and deeply human experiences. I’m not sure if people will read it or even if I’ll try to share and spread it. But if you’re here, I hope it will make you laugh or feel less alone or ideally, both. 

My goal is to share fun and love and laughs and heartache. And to not think too much while doin it. Sorry in advance to my high school English teacher who thought his red mark ups taught me to write coherently – my SHA girls know.

Also I know this is called “For the Gorls”, but the boys can read too, if you dare.

Stay tuned for posts about moving to Denver, getting divorced at 27, struggling with food, mental health, more on getting divorced because we can’t really just glaze over that one (and the move to Denver had to be preceded by some mental breakdown obviously), navigating a path back to yourself after doing so well at being the person people expect you to be, the way family and friends tether you to the earth, spirituality, toxic christianity, career aspirations, etc. 

I am someone who fortunately or unfortunately HAS to learn things the hard way. But I’m grateful for the rocky road and I really don’t think any part of my life has been a mistake so far. I believe it was all meant to happen, but to say I have zero regrets isn’t authentic. I absolutely entertain the spiraling thoughts about the better and easier decisions I could have made. But I’m trying to entertain these less and less.

Here’s to stumbling through this life and filling your cracks with gold. And I’m not talking about expensive anal beads. 

We’ll close this intro out with a quote and a song:

Her entire life led to the moment where she said “this is the life I want” and she never wasted time on a life that was not that. 

SUPERBLOOM  by MisterWives

LOL,

Your Gorl